Mixed race woman in tears over her afro hair records touching diary with support from 6m strangers
A mixed-race woman in tears over her afro hair has recorded a touching diary showing how she has grown to love her natural beauty – with the support of six million strangers.
Hannah Connaughton, from Stockport, says she has always been unsure of her curly hair after being bullied at school.
After years of straightening her hair, the 21-year-old had become so insecure about her heat damaged hair that she got angry and struggled not to “feel ugly.”
She decided to start a video diary on TikTok, where she bravely opened up about her insecurities and asked for advice, hoping to get some advice on good products.
But the video struck a chord with black and Métis women around the world who struggled with the same insecurities – and even celebrities.
Soon an astounding six million people watched the video, where Hannah was inundated with support, advice, free products, and encouragement.
The outpouring gave her the confidence to try on stylish wigs and eventually visit a specialty textured hair salon.
Although she initially vowed not to cut it, she had the courage to cut the majority of her locks in a matter of weeks.
Her new short – and confident Hannah – is a far cry from her first video, when she struggled with her hair.
“I’ve been straightening and bleaching my natural hair or wearing extensions since I was 14 when I first became aware of this,” the film and media student said.
“Because I look white, my hair was one of the only things about my appearance that made me look visually mixed, so it stood out.
“People at school would call me a poodle or ask to touch it.”
She continued, “When I asked for advice on TikTok because my hair was so damaged, I was overwhelmed with people’s responses and support – and I realized that I am not alone, and so much. other people tell my story.
“I even asked Amber Gill to send me a hair care package because she understood my experience – which made me realize, celebrity or not, that every black and black woman has experiences like mine. .
Hannah, whose mom’s family is from St Kitts, West Indies, started her hair confession videos on April 12 before having her hair cut on April 27.
Now she says she has come to realize that she should be kissing who she is.
“So many people were telling me to cut my hair short to let my curls grow naturally, and I finally got up the courage to make an appointment and started to get really excited to see my hair getting long and curly,” like before. be, ”Hannah said.
“I got the hang of it and I was so nervous, but it was such an exciting and liberating experience and I only had support and people tell me they are proud that they finally did it.
“Over the past few weeks I have become so much more confident and realized that I need to embrace who I am – there is a huge community of people like me, and I feel like I fit in and belong. for the first time.
“I want all girls who feel the same way I felt to see that they are not alone and that their natural hair is beautiful – self-love is the most empowering thing you can do, so try to accept it.
“It took 21 years, but now I’ve grown to love that side of myself – and I see black is beautiful.”